This article was originally written by the LawPàdí team and first appeared here.
Ask the average Nigerian about writing a will, and they will most likely get upset and accuse you of having negative thoughts towards them. This is the case in a lot of societies were thinking of making a will forces people to think about their own mortality and the inevitability of death.
This should not be the case. Writing a will is not only about planning for your death, but it is also about ensuring that your loved ones are adequately protected. It is in fact one of the most critical things that you can do for your loved ones. Putting your wishes in the form of a will helps your heirs avoid unnecessary hassles, and you gain the peace of mind knowing that a life’s worth of possessions will end up in the right hands.
WHAT IS A WILL IN NIGERIA?
A will is simply a legal document in which an individual known as the testator, declares how he/she would like his assets to be distributed when he/she dies. The individuals designated to receive any of the property of a testator is called a “beneficiary.”
Apart from deciding who gets your assets, a will can also serve to declare who you wish to become the guardian for any minor children or dependents.
WHAT IS COVERED IN A WILL?
Some types of property, including certain insurance policies and retirement accounts, generally aren’t covered by wills. This is because when an individual takes out these insurance policies or opened an account, part of the process is to list the beneficiaries of the account. The most important things to provide for when writing a will are who will be your executors, who will be the beneficiaries of your assets, and in cases where there are minors — who the guardian(s) of the minors will be.
CAN A WILL BE ADJUSTED AFTER IT IS MADE?
Yes, this can be done by either making a new will or by adding a “codicil” (an amendment) to the will.
WHAT HAPPENS IF A PERSON DIES WITHOUT A WILL?
If an individual should die without leaving a valid will, he/she has died intestate. That usually means that the individual’s estate will be settled based on the Administration of Estate Laws of the state of domicile of the individual. These laws determine who inherits what.

When an individual dies and has left a will, the process to administer the deceased estate is known as obtaining probate. By this probate, the court grants the executor(s) who have been appointed under the will, the right to administer the estate of the deceased. In the case of a death without a will, since there is no executor named, a judge appoints an administrator to serve in that capacity. An administrator also will be named if a will is deemed to be invalid. The administrator will exercise the powers over the estate in accordance with the Administration of Estate Law of the State.
WHAT MAKES A WILL VALID?
Generally, a will is not valid unless it fulfils the following requirements.
1. The will must be in writing
2. The individual writing the Will must be of legal age i.e. he/she must be at least 18 years old.
3. The individual must have what is known as testamentary capacity i.e. they have a sound mind, meaning the testator must know that he or she is making a Will and its effect; understand the nature and extent of the estate, and understand that he or she is disposing of property and assets.
4. The will must be signed by the testator and must be attested (witnessed) and signed by the witnesses.
5. The will must also have been made by a person who knew and approved of its contents and who was acting of their own free will.
Please note however that there are some exemptions for people who are members of the Armed Forces or sailors at sea, specifically they do not have to be 18 years of age, and making a will in certain circumstances does not have to be in writing.
Also note that witnesses cannot be beneficiaries under the will, and nor can the spouse or partner of a witness.
WHO IS AN EXECUTOR AND WHAT ROLE DOES HE/SHE PERFORM?
An executor is an individual appointed under a valid will with the responsibility of making sure a person’s wishes under the will are carried out. The executor of a will is responsible for making sure that any debts and creditors that the deceased had are paid off, and that any remaining money or property is distributed according to their wishes.
The executor is expected to fulfil their duties with the utmost honesty and diligence and is under what is known as a fiduciary duty which is a duty to act in good faith.
An individual can name their spouse, an adult child, or another trusted friend or relative as an executor. If the affairs are complicated, it is more prudent to name a lawyer or someone with legal and financial expertise as an executor. Executors are generally named joint executors, this is in case one of the executors is unable or unwilling to act as an executor.
WHERE SHOULD I KEEP MY WILL?
For an executor to obtain probate, the courts will require an original copy of the will, and therefore it is imperative that the document is kept safe. This can be done by keeping a copy with the courts, with a lawyer, in a bank safety deposit box, or in a waterproof and fireproof safe in your house. Wherever an individual decides to keep his/her will, please note that it should be somewhere that the executor knows where it is and can easily access it upon the death of the individual.
CAN A WILL BE CONTESTED?
A will can be contested for any number of other reasons, but they all revolve around the validity of the will, for instance, if it wasn’t properly witnessed; or the individual wasn’t competent when the will was signed, or it’s the result of coercion or fraud.
NEXT STEPS
Are you considering making a will? We advise that you should seek the services of a lawyer who will be able to assist you in drafting your will.

I really want to control my finances. I envisage that I have a great tendency of making money and mismanaging funds. Most times I run out of money before the month ends and I feel terrible about it.
Hi Sonia.
Thanks for your vulnerability.
We provide a lot of financial education guides on our blog that can help you better control your finances.
Take it step by step and you’ll do better in now time!
What about school fees, health , charity and insurance.
school fees, insurance, and health can be placed in that friend’s wedding column as talked about in the article, t its all about understanding the main idea, looking within yourself where does this item fall, it’s about been creative and manageable with your money, i.e how long money stays in our hand using it effectively.
thanks a lot,Ope.really helpful,sometimes we outline the fixed and forget the discretionary ,and wonder how alll the money disappeared .This is very insightful
I look forward to more articles from you guys, random articles on various life topics. I love the active voice you used in writing and that sacarsm part too?
Thank you! We look forward to having you back here too ?
This is really amazing and educating! Keep it up and thank you so much for THIS ARTICLE ?
Our pleasure ?
Hello Ope,
This piece is quite insightful and helpful. Thank you. I Read the part where you advised to not document budget on a book as one can lose the book. Can you recommend an app on playstore one can use?
Yes. I’m seconding this comment. I believe an accounting application can help. I actually document my expenses daily but combining them into a general heading is a big task.
Please help us, Ope.
Hi Glow, I can’t recommend any tool off the top of my head right now, but creating a simple Google sheet or excel file for your budgeting can work.
I have a challenge, am the one catering for the house so most times I run into debts because expenses are higher than income . please how do I work on this.
thanks
Okay, Ope, you got me on with this one! ?
I know I make a lot of money as a full-stack digital marketer, but after some time, I’m broke and I’m wondering how come? As you said, I’m wondering “where did all the money go to?”
Sha, this post is very helpful and I’ve just downloaded this app I want to make use of in listing out the entire process… but quick ??
Which app or tool would you recommend for proper budgeting and evaluation?
Regards,
Sam
Hey Sam, happy to hear you found this helpful! ?
For the tool to help with budgeting, I highly recommend that you get down to do the “dirty work” first by yourself. Create a sheet on Google Sheets or Excel to input and track your spending to give you a raw idea, and then you can use other tools for lighter budgeting work based on the idea you now have from your sheet.
Hi Glow
You can download money manager on playstore, that’s what I use. There are others there too
I spend close to 38,000 only
Hi Sam,
I found it fascinating when I had to keep track of my sister’s account, but tracking my own expenses or developing a personal budget appears to be an impossible feat.
I mean… I don’t have a stable source of income yet so it seems almost hard to do but then after going through your write up I wrote a few ways in which I get money and am hoping I’d be able to get an hang of it soon.
Thanks for the detailed explanation.
Ope rather not Sam, sorry.
Wow! This is great, learnt a lot
Thank you so much for sharing this, Ope.
I have a question though. How can I budget as a student?
Because it seems like I can’t apply the whole concept of budgeting in my life at the moment.
I mean, I am a student, I don’t have a fixed source of income; I receive allowance from my parent and sometimes from relatives. I also do not work and I have no investments.
Sometimes, I feel like financial plans and budgeting is just not for me, even though I’m quite interested in them.
Like when I even receive my allowance, the rate at which the money finishes fast, makes me ask myself, “How?” “Where did all the money go to?” and “What did I spend the money on?”
I want to know how to track my expenses, save effectively and if possible invest and then build a financial plan, even as a student but I don’t know how to go about it neither do I know what to do.
So, if there’s any advice you could give me, please do. I’m very ready to learn.
Also, thank you so much for your financial lessons. I am always happy when I see your blog updates in my email. Thank you!?
This is very insightful and educative. I will make a do with this tips immediately. Thanks immensely Ope.
This is helpful I learnt a lot as a young graduate budget helps in build Future occurrences coming in the future also helps to pridict a lot of plan that u ought to achieve
Thanks Ope for this rich enlightenment.
But I got to ask you a question.
What if you don’t get an income per say but, a kind of allowance that’s not stable that you’ll have to ask before its been given to you. How then do you plan a budget given such instance?
Thanks for this wonderful post of yours.It is more encouraging.
Dear Ope,
Thanks for this insightful write up. I am definitely practicing this starting now. This is just what I needed to hear at this time. Thanks again
Really amazing thanks alot for this
I need withdraw
Thank for this wonderful post of yours. It is more encourage
I need withdraw
This article came in on time. Am guilty of many of the bad money management stated in the article. Not withstanding, it is not too late to start. I will be better equipped for the remaining part of the year and next year as well. Thanks Ope
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This article came in on time. Am guilty of many of the bad money management stated in the article. Not withstanding, it is not too late to start. I will be better equipped for the remaining part of the year and next year as well. Thanks Ope
Ope thanks for this powerful awareness, pls if the is an app I can use for something like this let me know. I should start taking records this month
Mohammed
How can I do this
Thanks very much Ope. I always enjoy your post they are enlightening.Talking about budgeting how can one who’s money doesn’t come in bulk monthly go about making and achieving his or her budget.
I can control my financial status on my own. Because I really feel to be financially independent, on the basis of personal interest, and growth. Thank you so much.
Hi Ope,
Thanks for the blog,
I am currently working and I don’t earn enough. Also, I have to settle bills at home and help the family.
I find it hard to save, any advice on this?
Thanks for this piece, I really needed it to start my next month.✨
Thank you so much Ope. We shall do this
Cowrywise has really helped me to everyone more and spend less
I wish it will not crash
Thanks so much. This is an eye opener. I always wondered why I’m left with nothing at the end of the week/month/year after making so much money. Please, do cowrywise have a budgeting app that could be helpful.? It’s important