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TL asleep? ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, I’ll be honest, I like T.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T likes me too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And I know I didn’t need to spell it out like that, because I feel like we’ve already cleared out the first part. It’s just sort of important that I clear the air on the second part of T liking me too before I say what I’m about to say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remember a few days ago<\/a>, I said I was going to tell you a critical part of the gist that I left out. I’m still going to do that, so don’t worry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So here’s the thing: T and I had a number of really long conversations about the things we like about each other, and how compatible we are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The last time we had a similar conversation, it just dawned on me that T kept saying things like, “would have been” and “I wish”. I’m not completely sure what it means, and I want to ask, but I’m scared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m scared because I think I know the answer, without even asking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No matter how much we like each other and enjoy each other’s company, we can’t be together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It hurts me, but it is what it is, I guess.<\/h6>\n\n\n\n

This is just me speculating though. I probably shouldn’t conclude the worst because I’m not sure what’s going on in T’s mind. If it’s what I’m thinking, then it’s a justifiable reason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This thing I’m thinking is the critical piece of information I left out in all of this that I said I needed to tell you guys. I still would, but for now, I need your suggestions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I always come through for you on money advice<\/a>. Now I need your love suggestions. What would you do if you really like someone, but for some valid reason, you know you can’t be together in a defined relationship? Do you try to make excuses and find a way around the glaringly valid reason? Or do you just stop liking them? Or what?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

See? This is why I hate all this love thing. It’s not straightforward like money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In this life, just stick to what you know how to do best because I don’t even know how I got myself into this ?. By now, I would have been somewhere helping someone to create a budget<\/a>, or plan a trip, but nooo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Please you guys should help me ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’d be in the comments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Talk tomorrow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Love,
Ope ?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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