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I woke up in a rush today although I barely got any sleep. I kept thinking about T and checking my phone intermittently to see if my Money Duo<\/a> request had been accepted. Ma air mi jo<\/em>, T ??

Been a long while since I last felt this way, if at all. If I\u2019m being honest, I\u2019ve probably been hiding behind work to avoid love stories, but look at me now. One thing must break a person and T has broken my hard guy stance, but at this rate, maybe we should just be friends. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As at this morning, T was yet to accept my Duo<\/a> request and I have been too tensed to check again. I can literally feel my heart pulsating fast. Omo, this love thing na wa<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I think I will ask someone else to help me check. David<\/a> must have muted me on Slack by now ? But all these my colleagues<\/a> sef<\/em>, they will not let me love my love in peace. They\u2019ve been asking who T is since they read yesterday\u2019s entry<\/a> and I kept changing the topic ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe I should talk to an outsider? Or someone at home? Imagine that my family members hear that I\u2019m drooling over someone. Ehhh, I can imagine my mum literally throwing a party ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Love is sweet sha<\/em>. A friend once told me of how he spent days writing in a journal to give to the love of his life then. He spent days just spewing sweet gibberish on paper. The relationship is over now though ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Beautiful while it lasted, but it is what it is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why does love feel so complicated at times? Or maybe I should borrow words from Adele: why does it last in love but sometimes it hurts instead?\u00a0<\/em>

Oh well, let me come back to the real issue. T has not still accepted my Duo<\/a> request o. It\u2019s been 24 hours now. Maybe we should actually, just be friends ? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I hope all is well with T though. Pray for me y\u2019all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Better yet, give me hope. Share your love stories with me – good or bad. Has your crush ever aired<\/em> you? Or did you at any point air<\/em> someone who liked you? Don\u2019t worry, I won\u2019t judge you. After all, to air<\/em> is human ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

??Lmaooo tell me about it, and let me live through you small as I await T\u2019s response. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Talk soon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Love,
Ope ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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